My first date in a long time, today July 26th, 1pm. But the first time for me to go on a date with a man older than myself. Scarry! I normally “look” for younger. But thought I need to challenge myself and not go on “how he looks” but actually on chemistry and if we have anything in comman. So lets see…. (to be continued.) 12.47pm.
Well the date is over, 2.20pm. It wasn’t awkward 😊. And it wasn’t “I survived”. No, it was interesting! He was interesting. We had things in comman, we talked without awkwardly silence. We could be honnest. Both knowing what works for us as persons in life and sharing that without a problem made it even more interesting! We both wanted to get to know the other person more after the date 😊. I would lie if I said “oline dating isn’t worth the waiting ” cause it’s all about faith & patience to get to know the other person.
We both want to get to know each other more. We don’t want to stress about how we get there or when the nxt date is. And I like the honnesty with him. I can say I were attractive to both his look, talk, way of beeing. Which is a new experience for me 😊😊😊😊😊. And I am thankful for the Lord’s protection.
It’s all about to be in the moment, enjoy the time, not stress and for sure not think ahead of you like “can he/she be a part of my future”. Just enjoy the talk! If you aren’t thinking the same after that’s fine but don’t give up after one date! My experience is patience and it takes times for a reason! You need to know who you are and what you want in life to know what kind of person that fits you. You need to have faith in the lord to guide your steps, to close the door to the wrong ones and you need patience both to yourself, the men and to the Lord!
As I am walking’n’txting and the wind blowing through my hair and making extra sounds around my headset, I am glad I went!!! Really interesting man.
mia-simone. svenberg 