Tag: Annoying

Online dating (annoying or not), part 11.

August -23. Just as I was ending my profile on the dating app I started to talk to this, well quite interesting man I thought then…

I have deleted my profile and will have a break no matter! Tired of slow Norwegian men and other fake men!! I need time to pack, move, pack up and time to settle in in my new home. If I go back to a dating app at all, well time will show. I don’t need to stress finding a man. And is everything else in my life I trust the Lord to guide me into when it’s time for a new round with online dating. I have other things in life I need to spend time and energy on.

We talked on snap and it sounded prommesing that he wanted to visit me, up to the date of his arrival – today the 8th – but he didn’t respond to any of my snap’s after 3pm. I went in to Stavanger to sign my new house contract and told him on snap that I could wait nearby the train station. Which I did for almost 2 hours!! Before I gave up 8.20pm and took the train home. He hasn’t respond to any of my snap’s for the past hour or two and now I’ll ignore him as he has ignored me! *if he realky want to visit well answer!! Ifell my mouth is dirty in words and can only use those to express my geelinhs right now; 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

It’s not the first time 😥😥😥 I hope I’ve learn my lesson!!

I am now home making late dinner and gonna draw and watch telly to calm down and txt close friends 😊.

I hope that you who following my post of this theme, have got help through my thoughts and faith. But also listening to the Lord to give you advice. I hope you will find your true one out there one day! Just remember to not stress about it, giving the Lord your heart so He can guide you and you not becoming desperate!! That’s the worst kind of singel people Christian or not!

Online dating (is annoying)…

Right now I am just frustrated and annoyed…You know how life can “kick your as” sometimes… My is like that today. Got very annoyed already yesterday cause of a man I’ve started to talk to on a dating app and than on messanger on Friday evening. He very keen on a date and than 24 hours later no respond at all. Why and how come? Well I don’t know. Have no clue. Therefor am I very annoyed and frustrated. An I thought if I wrote about it (and maybe someone have been where I am could give me any kind of feedback) I would feel a bit better. Because thats how I work.

And I have to say it already helps. 🙂 Just typing it helps. But offcourse if you give me any feedback I would love that too!! 🙂

Why is it so that most people on a dating app are so not polite? Just because one write something the other person you write to, doesn’t like what you wrote, than it’s fine to totally ignore that and in worst case block that person? Since when is that polite? And if you met in real life??? I just don’t understand!!

Just because you are online, does that mean you can be rude to everyone?? It’s not just on a dating app, it’s others blog or other type of social media. Since when??

I doubt you would do that if you met the person. I wouldn’t. Am I trying to be “to polite” online? Am I rased in an other world, I am not rased by to beliving Christian folks so I can’t say my childhood is or was very different than most.

How do you think about this? Do you have any experience? And what would you do?

Anyway, I got an other date, today. And I am looking forward that. We have planned to just walk along the seaside and get to know each other. I might tell you how it went after. It’s not just about to date someone to see if you fit each other for me, some of them is worth a date just to get to know the other person. Maybe I get a new friend I can hang with who knows?

I will not say “offcourse I am looking for a man for the rest of my life” because I can’t say “for the rest of my life” cause I don’t know how long I live or if I’ll meet the “right person” now or later. I think most people should use other words even if I totally understand why people use the term. I have since I moved to Norway wanted to meet a man, yet haven’t that happend. I have been living here for fifteen years in September. Maybe I haven’t been ready as a person. Whatever reason I haven’t met the “right man” yet I guess is only the lord who knows. And I have come to peace with that fact, that whenever I do meet this man, I will be ready both as who I am and as a Christian. Wheneever it happends life will be good, I will be in a good place and mostly I am not stressed about it as I actually have been… And annoying family members has been more stressed. The different between me and my family is that they have been wanting a “good man who can give me kids” without asking me if thats what I wanted. They have just been assuming that’s what I wanted because “I am a christian” or because “I am a woman”. Which sucks!! I have since I don’t know, been wanted to meet a man with kids from before and not get my own once for years and years.

I am just whishing for a man with kids from an other relationship, sorry if you don’t like that. But the Lord have given me peace so I live with that.

Some of my bonus family totally undestands me others don’t and that’s okay. I live my life.

Christmas Eve and Day, 2021

I have to say I had a blessed day yesterday. Celebrating Christmas Eve with a family from Church. Felt like I was a part of them. 🙂 A big Christmas tree with lots of gifts both under and around. So cozy. I haven not had that feeling for at least 1 decage.

Isn’t that how it is when you are singel and, as for me haven’t had oppurtunity to visit my family for years, don’t have anyone closeby to celebrate with… Well I had a blast yesterday!

Back at home after 10.30pm, my cat-boy was happy to have me back. ^^haha^^. He does not like when I am out in the evenig. But I think it’s good practice for him. So he learn and I can get friends, maybe in the future meet a guy, have fun after work etc. And back home I wanted to update myself, friands and family by posting pictures (because that’s what I do normally), but than my smartphone was slow…and I thought I should just update the phone. Stupid me! Now it’s locked. 😦 I need a special code to get into it or get into my email account, which I also forgot the password to.:-( 😦 😦 So here I am. writing about my own tradegy caused by myself. On the other hand, it might bee good to not have a smartphone. I mean, I use it so often that it can be good to be without it for some day’s maybe most important to be without it during Christmas.

On Monday, I can call the company I have a subscription with and get the code I need. So until Monday I’ll be smartphone-free. (Gaaaaa).

I do have enough practical and creative things to do so it will not be a bigger issue. It’s just annoying… And I have tryed to find papers in some of the boxes that are still unpacked… I gave up.

Today’s first thing after coffee was a short walk with my cat-boy Silver. Out in the cold, where he met an other cat and a neighbour dog. What a start for him. First time for everything! After 4pm today, I’ll spend time with and other family from my house church, and I think that’s perfect. So I wont think so much about what have happend. I will hopefully be able to appreciate the time with new friends.

HAppY HoliDAy’s to You All!!