What I have learn so far, is that, if I talk to the Lord of my wishes then I have to listen to him to talk to me. And I need to have patince for the Lord to do his work. To think that, “I’ll find my hubby will be easy when the Lord is with me” isn’t really right thinking. It takes time. So don’t put your focus on when but on the lord. Let him guide you. Go on dates to figure out what you don’t want is also important. Have your focus on other things in life and go on one date here and there is okay. It doesn’t always need to be for you, it can actually be generous enough to just let the other person figure out what he/she is looking for especially if he/she has been in a long relationship not long ago. 😉. Be the Christian you maybe want to be, the one that hear the other person, or just go on a date to get out there. You need to start somewhere.
And go back in time, ask the Lord to remind you on what you have asked for years back in what you want in your partner. See if it’s the same now or have you change? What do you really looking for in a partner? What’s what you really want in life? And trust the Lord! He has a plan for you and your future. And please, don’t let other Christian people, friends or family tell you what you need. You know you and the Lord knows you. 💜. You can ask for guidence from friends and family or ask them to pray with you. But trust the lord for “a train” to jump up on and see where it takes you. It might not “be the one” but you will learn so much about yourself and what you are looking for to just try to ride “the train” 😉. Who says love is easy or just fun? Give it a try, you will learn a lot and bring your knowledge with you to the next relationship. Stand on your terms for what fits you and your faith. 💜.
I don’t know if I have found love, but I am willing to try and see where it leads me, and that’s why I am on this dating app. A Scandinavian dating app.
Continue reading Online dating (annoying or not) part 3.
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