Tag: Have patince

Online dating (annoying or not), part 6.

The most annoying part of online dating is all those guys and yes I mean guys! Who just show interesst in me because I look young and have past 40. So tired of them! They only want one thing and still think woman also just want that 😔😔. Pls grow up! And pls understand not all woman wants that.

Or I end up chatting with some okay interesting man that lives far far away and can chat forever… or who has focus on how much you 2 need to have in comman… Sorry that’s not me. I know it takes time and effort to get to know an other person no matter if this person “just” will end becoming my friend or future boyfriend. But it seams like I am quite alone thinking that 🤪🤪

I don’t say I will give up. No I do believe “someone” is out there for me. So I just have to switch focus. In the meanwhile I am trying to get back to work after one week on sick leave and be thankful for those I do have around me.

2nd annoying r those who don’t understand the point of a profile txt!! Or those who just like “cute” pictures 🤪🤪🤬.

I have been on snap with a guy, he thought I was “the right girl” for him. He was convinst I were what he was lo8king for. 😆😆. I tryed to get him to understand that it’s a bit smart to be objective when you want to get to know an other person but he was only in his normal track. Wrong track for me. He “showed” some, for me important sides, but they didn’t last 😔. When he send me pictures I didn’t ask for & I asked him to respect me and what I didn’t want. He didn’t. So I ditched him. I just can’t stand a person who can’t respect me and my values.

Just because “we all” are out on some dating app dosen’t mean we all “just do whatever we want” and “give a shit” about values and not respecting others out there. I do know a lot of people do, give a shit, but I don’t!

Online dating (annoying or not) part 3.

What I have learn so far, is that, if I talk to the Lord of my wishes then I have to listen to him to talk to me. And I need to have patince for the Lord to do his work. To think that, “I’ll find my hubby will be easy when the Lord is with me” isn’t really right thinking. It takes time. So don’t put your focus on when but on the lord. Let him guide you. Go on dates to figure out what you don’t want is also important. Have your focus on other things in life and go on one date here and there is okay. It doesn’t always need to be for you, it can actually be generous enough to just let the other person figure out what he/she is looking for especially if he/she has been in a long relationship not long ago. 😉. Be the Christian you maybe want to be, the one that hear the other person, or just go on a date to get out there. You need to start somewhere.

And go back in time, ask the Lord to remind you on what you have asked for years back in what you want in your partner. See if it’s the same now or have you change? What do you really looking for in a partner? What’s what you really want in life? And trust the Lord! He has a plan for you and your future. And please, don’t let other Christian people, friends or family tell you what you need. You know you and the Lord knows you. 💜. You can ask for guidence from friends and family or ask them to pray with you. But trust the lord for “a train” to jump up on and see where it takes you. It might not “be the one” but you will learn so much about yourself and what you are looking for to just try to ride “the train” 😉. Who says love is easy or just fun? Give it a try, you will learn a lot and bring your knowledge with you to the next relationship. Stand on your terms for what fits you and your faith. 💜.

I don’t know if I have found love, but I am willing to try and see where it leads me, and that’s why I am on this dating app. A Scandinavian dating app.

Continue reading Online dating (annoying or not) part 3.

Dating, online dating, challenges – what to expect.

Is always interesting. You never know how it will turn. Today, Sunday November 13th, I’ve just been on a nice date. And I say nice becauce it wasn’t any sparks or anything else. We chatted & shared some commen things.

We might be friends, but nothing else. And that’s life. I live. And I will continue this until mr right turns up 😉. I have patience becauce I am not hunting. No, I am enjoying to get out there and meeting people. I thinking it’s to interesting to not go on a date.

I see it as a good reason to get to know a new person I wouldn’t meet othervice and a good way for the lord to work through me in a situation I have no clue how it will go. It’s all about letting the Lord to be in control and talk to me and for me to be open.

Dating should not be a bad thing even if it’s not turning out to be what you might want. I think we need set our standars lower on what “we want” on the first date. If you think you find “mr/mrs right” on your first date no matter how short/long you been txting, you need to lower your expectations. You need to think: I am getting to know this person for the first time. Maybe you even need to reset your brain into a friends mode to be able to just get to know this person and not look for pro’s or con’s.

🤍 And pray about, let friends know what you want and when you going on a date, so they can stand by you in prayers. 🤍